Never a JW.
Freemindfade, survivor is a much better term. I am a survivor of both child abuse (physical and emotional ) and spouse abuse.
Flipper has covered a huge amount of the abuse in the organization but there is still the emotional abuse of the children. Those Caleb and Sofia videos and the children books that pale.emperor was discussing on another thread with those horrible graphics along with meeting agendas with no concept of age appropriate material.
Then you get into a JC with 3 men and 1 woman or a child asking totally inappropriate questions.
YES, all of this is outright abuse. If it wasn't a religion it would be criminal abuse.